收放自如的熱情

家中兩個寶貝去年暑假最沉迷的是Pokemon，電子遊戲及figurines玩過不停，讀得最多的也是Pokemon指南。去年開學後當然繼續沉迷，我們於是嚴重告誡：只有週末才能玩，學年轉眼過去，他們也倒真夠定力，一個月只玩它一兩次。我還以為他們對Pokemon熱情不再，已經outgrown了？原來不是，一放暑假，兒子便把他的寶貝傾巢而出，他的熱情真夠收放自如，成年人也屬少見呢！
令我想起一位常常睇波的老友，觀看賽事過程當中他固然極之投入，但結果塵埃落定之後，從不見他為愛隊落敗而沮喪不已，或因愛隊成功而喜形於色。
其實近年自己多隊愛隊受挫（例如曼聯，UT，UW都僅敗）相對而言，不甚喜歡的如車路士，Kings，Cardinals，NY Giants等等就成功奪錦，的確不是味兒；不過想深一層，自己的愛隊之前亦屢獲佳績，似乎也無需為一時失敗而介懷。看看歐國盃看台上那些弱隊擁躉，很多都做到勝固欣然敗亦喜，真的是為了能夠參與而高興，實在值得學習！
到有一天能對愛隊的熱情收放自如，也許可以試試如何對人也能如此，現在只能以一句「我是熱情的rock友」來解嘲吧！

What he does for a living

Today I read an article in American Airline's magazine about Metallica's drummer Lar Ulrich getting a side job as an actor in a movie about the Spanish Civil War starring Nicole Kidman. At this point in his sucessful career he could pretty much do anything he likes (including making music that suck badly with his band coz they made enough great ones to justify that.) The most interesting quote though, was when asked about his future acting plan, he said, "Actually all this music and acting isn't even what I do for a living -- on days like today, it seems my full-time occupation is driving children around." So both Ulrich and I have something in common in addition to making rock music!